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My 80+ Group

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(formerly my 70+ group!)

At 80 the body is

more fragile, and

we have organ

recitals when we

gather, but we still

gather. The recent

deaths of siblings

and friends, a small

stroke, and a bout

of vertigo have

made some of us feel

more vulnerable, yet 

some are feeling

happier than they 

ever have, and 

we still gather.

This circle of women

has been through

rough patches and 

we are all weathering,

but we still gather.

We have learned 

to adapt to changes,

internal and external,

mostly with grace

and appreciation, 

(but not always!),

yet we still gather. 

Each of us is 

searching for a

path to acceptance,

beauty, and joy in

the years that remain,

and as we gather we

reveal and share

what really matters,

learn from each other,

laugh and cry,

and feel the pure 

joy that radiates 

from being a member

of a circle of women.

Until life’s end,

whether in person

or via zoom, whether

in nursing homes,

retirement communities,

or our own homes,

may we continue to gather.

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Author: BHW

I am an octogenarian, mother, grandmother, wife, sister, friend, voracious reader, and amateur poet. I am dedicated to keeping both my mind and body active through yoga and tai chi, walks with my dog, rich discussion with my book club and 80+ groups, and numerous other activities. I have a deep curiosity about the world and its inhabitants.

4 thoughts on “My 80+ Group

  1. Joan's avatar

    Betty, you captured so well the heart sustaining nature of our group. We are lucky, indeed, to age together. Thank you.

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  2. egleaner's avatar

    how long have y’all been together?

    this group sounds like an ongoing blessing!

    blessings, a

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    • BHW's avatar

      We started the group when we were all turning 70 but many of us have known each other for a lot longer. It is definitely an “ongoing blessing!” and we feel very lucky to have such a sacred circle.

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  3. LuAnne Holder's avatar

    What a blessing to have such a group. I belong to a group that ranges in age from 65 to 85. We’ve been together, writing and making art, for 11 years for me. They sustain me, and we all watch out for each other. I am so glad you have this group and shared this community with us.

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