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Home After Surgery

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The feel of my own sheets.

Soft pillows without

a rubbery covering.

Luna curled beside me.

Blessed quiet with no

beeping machines, no

wakeups at 3 a.m. for 

chest x-rays, or a roommate

with the TV blaring.

No tangle of tubes and

no more poking and prodding.

A daughter who took over 

communication with family

and friends. A son who experienced

the trauma of post-surgery complications

without alarming me. The Betty Brigade 

bringing delicious food each day.

A husband who changed

the sheets. Sleep, blessed sleep!

Daughters and granddaughter

changing my bandages with

calmness and professionalism.

Quiet visits from my circle of women.

And the list continues to grow.

Oh, do we ever take for

granted the small blessings

of this life. I thought I was 

aware of them but this 

“unwelcome visitor” has 

seared their importance

into my very being and 

I am thankful for that.

(But not for the “unwelcome visitor!”)

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Author: BHW

I am an octogenarian, mother, grandmother, wife, sister, friend, voracious reader, and amateur poet. I am dedicated to keeping both my mind and body active through yoga and tai chi, walks with my dog, rich discussion with my book club and 80+ groups, and numerous other activities. I have a deep curiosity about the world and its inhabitants.

4 thoughts on “Home After Surgery

  1. Kemper Thornton's avatar

    💕💕

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  2. egleaner's avatar

    Godspeed as you recover from your ‘unwelcome visitor’ and post-surgical complications.

    in order for people to be able to care for others by bringing meals, etc, someone has to happily say yes to these offerings. sounds like you’re doing that with grace.

    healing mercies, a

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  3. LuAnne Holder's avatar

    Oh, Betty, I wish you a peaceful and swift recovery. So sorry to hear about this surgery. I send healing thoughts to you through the blogosphere.

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